The Parents Of Two Boys Wish For A Girl But Got Something So Much Better

Published on 02/02/2020
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A lot of people say having kids is one of the best things that could ever happen to someone. Children bring families so much love and life with their innocence and playfulness. Most parents think it’s ideal to have a son and a daughter. This couple has been trying to have a baby girl for many years, and at last, they got pregnant with one. Little did they know that they were in for a surprise.

The Parents Of Two Boys Wish For A Girl But Got Something So Much Better

The Parents Of Two Boys Wish For A Girl But Got Something So Much Better

The Big Day

The married California couple, Katie and Angelo had two incredible boys. Having a baby can be such an exciting thing for couples. Normally, parents feel a sense of excitement along with some nerves as the moment their baby will be born comes near. At the Sharp Memorial Hospital in San Diego, two days had been all about prepping for a new baby for a specific family.

The Big Day

The Big Day

Reason To Celebrate

Once Katie and Angelo discovered they were pregnant, they were extremely excited to have a new addition to their growing family. The parents were so happy to learn they would finally be having a girl since they always dreamed of having one. When the doctors gave them the news, Katie and Angelo were already ecstatic.

Reason To Celebrate

Reason To Celebrate

Two Boys

Katie and Angelo had been married for a while by then, and they decided it was a good time to grow their family. The two followed through on their decision by having two boys. The parents knew that having two healthy sons was a huge blessing, but all the same, Katie and Angelo felt like their family was still missing something deep down.

Two Boys

Two Boys

Another One

The couple still wanted more kids since they felt like they would be able to handle having more children. Katie and Angelo were rather effortless as parents. They were capable of properly taking care of their two sons, and they thought, the more the merrier!

Another One

Another One

Wanting More

The parents were confident they’d be able to handle more than what they had. So, when they found out Katie was pregnant again, they were delighted. The news sounded like music to their ears. They were so happy to have the opportunity to grow their family.

Wanting More

Wanting More

Surprising Discovery

When Katie and Angelo found out Katie was pregnant, they went straight for a check-up at the doctor, wasting no time. When it came to Katie and the baby’s health, they didn’t want to take any chances. There were so many ways this would have been able to go poorly, so it was important to them to make sure they were all healthy and well.

Surprising Discovery

Surprising Discovery

Early Weeks

Throughout the early weeks of the pregnancy, it was confirmed by the doctors that the progress Katie was making was healthy. However, one day, after Katie had gone for a routine check-up, the doctors had another thing to say. This was the moment that would change the couple’s lives forever.

Early Weeks

Early Weeks

Specialist Needed

When the couple went to see the doctor that day, they expected everything to go just as smoothly as it had been in the past. Well, their doctor, Sean Daneshmand, told them Katie had to go to a specialist, which alarmed the couple. This is definitely not what a couple wants to hear when they go see a doctor.

Specialist Needed

Specialist Needed

Keeping Calm

They had so many questions they wanted to ask. Was there something wrong? Why did Katie need to see a specialist? While they tried their best not to worry, the couple couldn’t help but feel alarmed and somewhat anxious. At this point, the parents had little control over the situation.

Keeping Calm

Keeping Calm

Precautions

Katie and Angelo got pretty nervous since they were scared they were going to get bad news. However, when they asked the doctor for the reason they had to see a specialist, he gave them a simple answer. This was the answer they didn’t see coming.

Precautions

Precautions

In The Hospital

Since a pregnant woman had to be taken care of very well and protected, their doctor didn’t want to take any risks when it came to Katie’s health. He mentioned that he spoke to her and said, “Katie, we belong in the hospital now.” The couple didn’t hesitate to follow the doctor’s orders. They made their way to the hospital to keep both Katie and the baby safe.

In The Hospital

In The Hospital

Continuous Care

The doctors explained to the couple that the main reason Katie needed the extra attention was that her pregnancy was considered to be a high-risk one. High-risk pregnancies are capable of harming the baby and the mother as well, so they had to be carefully monitored.

Continuous Care

Continuous Care

More Precautions

This meant that Katie would possibly develop complications that could affect not just her own health but her baby’s health as well. The doctors told her that she would need care during all hours of the day to make sure she was fine. This isn’t what a mother wants to hear when she’s very pregnant.

More Precautions

More Precautions

Not Just One

If you don’t understand why all of a sudden the doctors were being all fussy about Katie’s pregnancy, then know that there’s a good explanation for it all. This was because she wasn’t just expecting one baby. She was expecting more.

Not Just One

Not Just One

The More The Merrier

Katie wasn’t pregnant with one baby. She was pregnant with three. Three babies! Just imagine having to carry three babies all at once. It was definitely the right decision for the doctors to instruct Katie to be at the hospital and get more care. Not only was it all overwhelming, but the situation was dangerous.

The More The Merrier

The More The Merrier

Happy

This pregnancy was rather unique for Katie. As you might have already guessed, after finding out they were having triplets, Katie and Angelo couldn’t be happier. Since the family wanted to grow their family, it wasn’t bad news to find out they would be having three more kids.

Happy

Happy

A Concern

Despite all the excitement, there was an issue with Katie’s pregnancy. Two of the babies in her womb were sharing only one placenta. This situation is very rare and complicated, so doctors had to keep a close eye on her and the babies.

A Concern

A Concern

Worry About Size

The fact that two of the babies were sharing one placenta wasn’t the biggest problem, but it did have its disadvantages for the babies. One baby’s size was going to be hampered, meaning it wouldn’t get to be the same size as the other two babies. Still, there were plenty of other possible complications that were listed. This problem paled in comparison to them.

Worry About Size

Worry About Size

Potential Complications

During her pregnancy, the problems that came up were pretty serious. One of them was the high probability that the babies would be born prematurely. This is rather common with twins too, but with triplets, it’s a much higher risk.

Potential Complications

Potential Complications

The Possibilities

Aside from that, it was a possibility that the triplets would have underdeveloped lungs or suffer from brain bleeds. Not to mention, some problems could follow the babies even after they’re born. This is why they had to be extremely careful. This was a very stressful time for the couple who had to remain composed and keep in mind that health was their top priority.

The Possibilities

The Possibilities

Stress Isn’t Healthy

The health of their three unborn babies was at stake. The doctor was absolutely right about Katie needing a specialist to care for her during her pregnancy. However, this revelation made her pregnancy one of the most stressful periods of their lives. Since it’s not healthy for pregnant women to be too stressed, the medical team whatever they could to ease Katie’s anxiety.

Stress Isn't Healthy

Stress Isn’t Healthy

Hospital Admission

As time went by, Katie was in her 27th week of the pregnancy. Her stomach was getting very big by then, so she had to be admitted to a hospital to make sure she was having a healthy pregnancy. She needed to be far from her family, but she had no other choice. Still, she pushed on a did the one thing she was able to do – focus on the babies she was carrying.

Hospital Admission

Hospital Admission

Different Possibilities

As the pregnancy progressed, Katie found out things from her doctors, leading her to feel very stressed at times. Even though she knew she had to stay as calm as possible, she found it very difficult sometimes.

Different Possibilities

Different Possibilities

Anything Might Happen

“Anything could happen between now and my due date,” Katie said. Carrying just one baby is hard enough, so just imagine what it would be like to be pregnant with three! The ultrasounds that she got kept showing steady growth for the babies, which did calm her somewhat.

Anything Might Happen

Anything Might Happen

Unfortunate Loss

Katie was getting more and more nervous as she thought about what she had in store in the future with her three babies. “We hear a lot of stories,” she said during an interview. She said it was hard for her and Angelo not to hear the terrible stories said in the hospital.

Unfortunate Loss

Unfortunate Loss

Horror Stories

She tried not letting it get to her, but Katie was disturbed by the things she’d heard regarding complications and failed pregnancies. She couldn’t help that her nerves were getting to her. This wasn’t what needed to happen, and the doctors didn’t want her to feel even more stressed since that could mean trouble.

Horror Stories

Horror Stories

How Many Babies?

Katie had a bad feeling that she might not get to welcome all three babies she was meant to give birth to. She said, “You know of triplets that don’t make it. Especially the identical twins. The body absorbs one of them.” Stories like that stressed her out, keeping her up at night. Naturally, this only made matters worse.

How Many Babies

How Many Babies

Fearful Mother

Were these just nerves or were they foreshadowing? Was Katie sensing the outcome of her pregnancy or would she have a different fate leading her to be one of the lucky mothers with successful pregnancies? All she was able to do at that point was to think positive thoughts and hope she would be one of the lucky ones.

Fearful Mother

Fearful Mother

Needing Empathy

In terms of moms like Katie, Sharp Memorial Hospital Perinatal Special Care Unit’s Angela Watson went on to explain that the most important tool in these kinds of cases was empathy. In her many years working at the hospital, she’s seen that expectant mothers who were confronted by complications just needed others to give them some motivation and help them stay positive.

Needing Empathy

Needing Empathy

Someone There

Anglea explained further, saying that the kind of approach she uses when she takes care of expectant mothers at the hospital is, “They’re taken away from everything that’s normal. So by telling them, you know, ‘I understand this is really hard for you,’ that’s huge for patients.” She wants everyone to be aware of the fact that pregnant women just need someone to listen to them and have a shoulder for them to cry on.

Someone There

Someone There

Not The First

While Katie’s pregnancy was a special one, it was definitely not the first. Plenty of women before her have been pregnant and given birth to three babies at once. These women all gave birth to triplets, with a specific medical team that specialized in those cases. The babies were referred to as A, B, and C. Angelo and Katie could only hope the babies would come out healthy.

Not The First

Not The First

Concerns For One Baby

As time went by, the couple discovered that Baby B wasn’t getting enough fluids. It’s needless to say that the baby was affected by this situation. It ended up being somewhat smaller than the other two.

Concerns For One Baby

Concerns For One Baby

Waiting And Hoping

The only thing Katie and Angelo were able to do was wait and see what the outcome would be for Baby B. The couple desperately hoped and prayed that they’d be welcoming all three babies when the time came. This was the most difficult time for them. All they could do was wait.

Waiting And Hoping

Waiting And Hoping

32nd Week

The doctors were minimizing the risks as best as they could, so they watched Katie very carefully. Until her 32nd week of pregnancy, they kept a close watch on her. They wanted to see all three of those babies just as much as everyone in their family. The doctors became so involved with Katie’s pregnancy that they felt like they had to do everything they could to help. So what would happen to the babies?

32nd Week

32nd Week

Planned

After the doctors did everything within their power to keep Katie’s pregnancy healthy, she went into labor just one day after her 32nd week began. Everyone sighed in relief. This was the time that made the most sense for her to go into labor and put the babies in as little risk as possible.

Planned

Planned

Going Into Labor

This meant that Katie carried the babies successfully without any more complications. Everyone was so happy to find out that things were turning out just as planned. So, she went into labor, but how would the delivery itself go?

Going Into Labor

Going Into Labor

Different Approach

Despite the fact that oftentimes, it’s suggested that childbirth should be done in a natural way, Katie’s situation required a different approach. Since the doctors wanted to keep the delivery under control, they had her go through a cesarean section.

Different Approach

Different Approach

Ready

Seeing as the waiting period for the babies was long and very complicated, Katie couldn’t help but look forward to giving birth. She wanted to hold all her little girls in her arms and know they are safe and healthy.

Ready

Ready

Confession Of A Mother

“As soon as I see them I just want to touch them or give them a kiss…to make sure they’re okay,” Katie confessed. Who can blame her? Katie was away from her husband and sons while she stayed in the hospital to make sure hers and the babies’ health weren’t compromised. It was definitely an adventure.

Confession Of A Mother

Confession Of A Mother

The Birth

Katie and Angelo had a rollercoaster throughout the pregnancy. They were both so happy to find out about her pregnancy but soon were devastated when they learned about the possible complications. In the end, however, Katie’s delivery was a success. All three newborns were transferred to an individual team for advanced life support.

The Birth

The Birth

Important Check

The minute each baby was delivered, the doctor carefully examined them to make sure the newborns weren’t showing signs of any health problems. The doctors went on to help the babies with their breathing and make sure they were stabilized.

Important Check

Important Check

Initial Check

When everything necessary was done, the triplets were taken to the intensive care unit for neonates. Katie was now able to recover too, and the babies were being taken care of and watched by the hospital team.

Initial Check

Initial Check

More Effort

While treating the babies, the doctors were careful not to make any mistakes. They revealed that they had to put a little more effort into opening the babies’ lungs and that it was difficult to do. As the doctors did this, Katie and Angelo were completely helpless. They had tears in their eyes as they watched from the other side of the room.

More Effort

More Effort

Stable Condition

As the doctors were doing whatever they could to help the triplets and ensure their health, Angelo and Katie were praying. As it turns out, their prayers were answered. All three babies were okay and turned out fine.

Stable Condition

Stable Condition

Thank You

Thanks to the doctors and all the effort they put in, the three little girls – Trish, Danielle, and Rebecca – were stable. They were then ready to be taken to intensive care. This was where babies were reunited with their parents and could spend their time together.

Thank You

Thank You

Not Out Of Danger

Despite the fact that everyone was relieved to find out that all three of the babies were stable, there were still other things to be checked. We still have to remember these babies are small and are predisposed to other complications,” their doctor explained. Since the babies were born together, each one needed to be handled carefully and the doctors had to keep a close eye on them.

Not Out Of Danger

Not Out Of Danger

Successful Outcome

“And, again, long-term issues. But, so far, we’re excited that everything has turned out very well,” Dr. Daneshmand said in an interview. Katie and Angelo were finally able to breathe a little easier. Their biggest fear was for the babies not being born healthy, and that didn’t come true, thankfully. The couple and doctors had worked together and had a successful outcome, so there was most definitely a reason to celebrate.

Successful Outcome

Successful Outcome

The First Time

Once Katie had some rest, she was prepared to meet her newborn babies. Angelo helped her by wheeling up her neonatal unit, where the babies were kept under monitoring. This was to make sure nothing else would go wrong.

The First Time

The First Time

At Last

After a pregnancy that was difficult and filled with anxiety, the parents would be able to finally see their new babies. They finally had the chance to see the babies and interact with their little girls who they’ve waited for.

At Last

At Last

The Wait Is Over

Katie wished for a daughter for so long, so she felt so accomplished to finally have her little girls. Just like she said before the delivery, she carried one baby in her arms and brought her near her chest as she whispered: “It feels so right.” Since Katie had to wait so long, the moment was very emotional for her. She had tears falling down her face as she held her baby.

The Wait Is Over

The Wait Is Over

The Challenges

Pregnancy is by no means an easy experience. A woman needs to be incredibly strong, both physically and mentally in order to successfully give birth. Plenty of things can go wrong, but this was a case where everything turned out alright.

The Challenges

The Challenges

Sharing Her Experience

Pregnancy can be a very draining thing psychologically and physically. Katie endured all the hardships during her pregnancy and finally was free of them. Later, she spoke about the things that went through her mind once it was all done.

Sharing Her Experience

Sharing Her Experience

Already Attached

“I was only a few hours apart from them, but I really missed them,” she said later one during an interview. She spoke about how attached she had already become to her babies and said seeing them again made her so happy. “…it feels good to be reunited,” she said.

Already Attached

Already Attached

Special Moment

Katie wasn’t the only one drained by the experience. Even though Angelo was ecstatic to hear that he and Katie would have triplets, he was still stressed out about the complications his wife went through. However, as soon as he met his baby daughter, Trisha, and saw her open her eyes, he felt like that moment was as special as it gets.

Special Moment

Special Moment

Felt Great

Angelo was so happy to have his new daughter in his arms. He felt like he was in a dream – like none of it was real. As her father, the two had an immediate bond from the first time he held his daughter.

Felt Great

Felt Great

Dad’s Reaction

“Beautiful,” he said, “Beautiful feeling.” Finally, Angelo would be able to relax and enjoy taking on his new role of being the father of three baby girls. There’s something so special about the bond between a little girl and her father.

Dad’s Reaction

Dad’s Reaction

Team Effort

Everything would have been impossible if the hospital’s entire midwife team wouldn’t have put in the work and effort that they did. The Sharp Memorial Hospital team deserves all the credit for the successful birth. The situation could have easily ended in a completely different way.

Team Effort

Team Effort

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